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 Post subject: An ex threatening suicide.
PostPosted: 22 May 2009, 12:55 
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My ex girlfriend keeps telling me she's going to kill herself. I know she's extremely depressed, but I can't tell if she will really do it.

She has said in the past that she was thinking about suicide, but this is the first time she's actually threatened to do it.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there anywhere i can call to get her some help?


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PostPosted: 22 May 2009, 13:05 
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Usually when people threaten to do it, they wont. Just to be safe though, google some numbers, idk.


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As an "ex-boyfriend" med services are not likely to believe you, but maybe talk to someone in her family and have them do some kind of intervention. Strangely enough (at least in my state) the County Coroner is the one that actually can commit someone to a mental facility. The criteria for committing someone is "the person is a danger to themselves or others". If the family can't or won't help and you REALLY think she is serious, you might try the Coroner's office. Keep in mind tho if this is just melodramatic bullshit then the Coroner isn't going to be too happy with you.

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dageaux wrote:
Keep in mind tho if this is just melodramatic bullshit then the Coroner isn't going to be too happy with you.


But its better to be safe than sorry. Definitely call someone.

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Daniellllleee wrote:
Usually when people threaten to do it, they wont. Just to be safe though, google some numbers, idk.


This is true. The vast majority that commit suicide just go ahead and do it. This is why it always comes as a shock to people they knew when it happens, and why notes are generally written. If someone says "I'm killing myself." it means that they're either going to do it right now, or just looking for some attention.

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I talked to her today and she broke down.

She said she's failing in school, losing her friends, and her mother hates her. I want to help her but i don't know what to tell her. I'm not a person who should be giving advice on being happy.

She promised she wont hurt herself and if she felt like doing it she'll call me.

I'm really stuck, I don't know what to do.
Should I offer her a place to stay to get away from her mother?


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I hate to line this up so easily but - she wants to get away from where she is and you can provide a safety zone for her with actual good intentions in mind.

??????


Has is ever been this easy for anyone else?

Be a gentleman and do the right thing.

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99.9% of them are bluffing, however you cant be sure, i know i had a GF years ago that said if i leave her she would kill herself, i said OK go on then, she still texts me from time to time...

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 Post subject: Re: An ex threatening suicide.
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She must be fucking bi polar, the drama never ends.

It's all started again by the way. I'm sure it's for attention.

I'm sorry I got worked up and bothered you guys with this.


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GG Allin wrote:
She must be fucking bi polar, the drama never ends.

They all are.

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It's all started again by the way. I'm sure it's for attention.

Usually is.

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I'm sorry I got worked up and bothered you guys with this.

Are you kidding? we will be making "Hey your ex whack herself?" jokes for months about this.

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Can I be the first?

An elderly couple, still very loving after all these years, is shocked when the woman's doctor says she has a heart condition that could kill her at any time. She is to avoid stress, eat right, and never, ever have sex again--the strain would be too much.

The couple reluctantly try to live by these rules. Both get really horny over time, however, and the husband decides he'd better sleep downstairs on the couch to guard against temptation.

This works for a few weeks, until late one night when they meet each other on the stairs--she's coming downstairs, he's heading up.

"Honey, I have a confession to make," the woman says, her voice quavering. "I was about to commit suicide."

"I'm glad to hear it, sweetie," the man says, "Because I was just coming upstairs to kill you!"


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 Post subject: Re: An ex threatening suicide.
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this thread has taken a strange turn....hope she doesn't kill herself or you'll be feeling pretty guilty buddy :D

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this thread has taken a strange turn....hope she doesn't kill herself or you'll be feeling pretty guilty buddy :D


I didn't even think about that. No wonder she wants to die. :smack:


To make things even better my fucking mother and my sister got in a fight today and i broke it up, police show up etc...

My mom is now saying that my sister and I attacked her. For fuck's sake.


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 Post subject: Re: An ex threatening suicide.
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Dude, You need to like get a spot on Jerry Springer or summit....

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dageaux wrote:
Dude, You need to like get a spot on Jerry Springer or summit....


Try and get a week when Jerry is on holiday, cause Steve fills in as host, its soo much funnier

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dageaux wrote:
Dude, You need to like get a spot on Jerry Springer or summit....

:bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl: :bowrofl:

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GG Allin wrote:
My ex girlfriend keeps telling me she's going to kill herself. I know she's extremely depressed, but I can't tell if she will really do it.

She has said in the past that she was thinking about suicide, but this is the first time she's actually threatened to do it.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there anywhere i can call to get her some help?


It's too bad this waste of skin didn't do it. What a piece of shit she has turned into.


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 Post subject: Re: An ex threatening suicide.
PostPosted: 13 Feb 2010, 20:36 
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This isn't the current is it?


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bro that's a bit far, you don't wish death on anyone. no matter who they are or what they've done you don't wish death upon someone.

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Oh, I definitely wish death upon one of my ex's. Granted he was an abusive sack of shit who threatened me, my family, and my friends, but still. He's a person (of sorts) and I DEFINITELY wish torture and death upon him. I'll take all the bad karma this grudge brings me.


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Oh, I definitely wish death upon one of my ex's. Granted he was an abusive sack of shit who threatened me, my family, and my friends, but still. He's a person (of sorts) and I DEFINITELY wish torture and death upon him. I'll take all the bad karma this grudge brings me.



:werd: I have seriously considered CAUSING the death of one of my ex's. :terror:

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Ferox wrote:
Oh, I definitely wish death upon one of my ex's. Granted he was an abusive sack of shit who threatened me, my family, and my friends, but still. He's a person (of sorts) and I DEFINITELY wish torture and death upon him. I'll take all the bad karma this grudge brings me.



:werd: I have seriously considered CAUSING the death of one of my ex's. :terror:


Sort of related for you Dag.

My mom and I were having martinis the other night and talking about my biological fathe. She looks at me and says, "since we are on the subject I once hired a hitman to kill him." I didn't know what to say because obviously he is still alive so who knows but just the revelation that she had made the attempt created a quiet evening.

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bro that's a bit far, you don't wish death on anyone. no matter who they are or what they've done you don't wish death upon someone.

*makes joke implying you're a homosexual*


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mzziqztixl wrote:
Sort of related for you Dag.

My mom and I were having martinis the other night and talking about my biological fathe. She looks at me and says, "since we are on the subject I once hired a hitman to kill him." I didn't know what to say because obviously he is still alive so who knows but just the revelation that she had made the attempt created a quiet evening.


You know Mzz, it really isn't surprising that you tend to date psychotics...

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