I'm just gonna throw this out here because it seems to be completely missing. Birth Control gives heart attacks, aneurysm, weight gain, kidney and renal failure and a whole shit ton of other complications plus its only like 85% effective.
Save the fucking meds for a real problem and use condoms. They work really well, buy some KY if the dry thing happens and really research bc.
I'm not against bc but I am really against all the side effects especially when condoms are literally a "fire and forget" commodity. Yeah it's not as great, but you (probably) aren't even doing the fun stuff in sex yet so go with the condoms and the KY.
Just don't do the "pullout" method. I am sure every poster above is guilty of this, and the amount of stress that "oops...uhm honey..." causes is just nightmarish.
I get the whole wanting to normalize your cycle, but you are young and the real reason you are occillating is most likely stress and or other difficulties. Maybe see a shrink and get on some anti anxiety meds. I don't know...the pill is just really fucking awful in my opinion.
I think you should try not telling a 16-year-old not the take the pill...i have been taking it for over 2 years and i havn't gained a pound, and it's about 95% effective (actually is theoretically 100%, but manufacturers can't afford law suits, so they leave an error margin). The pill prevents cancer in women, and several complications in your reproductive system, and I've never heard it increases the risk of heart disease or aneurism (and i've read about it and talked to a few doctors...)
and everyone, stop using the pull out method! don't be stupid, just use a god damn condom.
Bayou is right, there's sth called pre seminal fuid, that comes before eyaculation; the sperm cound in is much lower, but there's still always a chance
and don't use the "counting days" method either...many women ovulate more than once every 28 days
Dude stop playing with your dick and type coherently