Also, I noticed you said second home.. is this usual, or does your family just have a legit amount of money?
idk, we have an apartment in the city (where we actally live), a house like 25 kms away where we go on weekends (that's where my dad is at) and another house like 500 kms away (where we go on summers). We are not rich, my parents builted the houses (not with their hands, but they did it little by little )
anyway, my parents have always been so perfect that i'd never even imagine this could happen...I guess that's why i'm so confused. And I'm leaving next week for a month, so I thinks what I'm most worried about is what the hell is gonne happen while i'm gone..who's getting the cat and the dog? (yes, i know it sounds stupid, but i'm extremely protective of them, and i would die if they got neglected because of this mess.)
I guess I'm still hoping for my dad to come home. I'm definetely not sitting them down and telling them anything, 'cause they didn't yell (i'm not disturbed by that, it's just the image of my dad taking a bag and leaving..) and i most certainly can't solve their problems...i feel stupid, I'm 21, this should not affect me
sorry I go on about this, i haven't talked to anyone about this (my siblings don't know yet, and i'm not ready to talk about it w friends...), and i gues it's easier to write it to a bunch of strangers..:P
Dude stop playing with your dick and type coherently